Your safety is your responsibility. SkipTheGames is a classified directory — we don't screen, verify, or endorse anyone who posts on the Site. The following guidelines are provided to help you make informed decisions when connecting with people online.
Before You Meet
- Screen first. Exchange enough information to feel comfortable before agreeing to meet. If someone refuses to answer basic questions or pressures you to skip screening, that's a red flag.
- Verify photos. Ask for a quick verification photo (e.g. a selfie with a specific pose or holding a specific item) to confirm the person matches their listing.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels off — a story doesn't add up, the person is overly aggressive, or you feel pressured — walk away. Your gut is usually right.
- Never send money upfront. Legitimate providers don't ask for full payment before meeting. A small deposit may be reasonable, but large upfront payments to someone you haven't met is a common scam.
- Tell someone. Let a trusted friend know where you're going and when you expect to be back. Share the address or general area if possible.
When You Meet
- Meet in a public place first. If possible, meet briefly in a public location (a lobby, coffee shop, parking lot) before going somewhere private. This gives you a chance to verify the person and assess the situation.
- Keep your phone charged. Make sure your phone has battery and signal. Keep it accessible at all times.
- Watch for signs of trafficking. If the person seems controlled by someone else, appears fearful, avoids eye contact, or has signs of physical abuse — leave immediately and report it. Call the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 1-888-373-7888.
- Don't bring valuables. Leave expensive watches, jewelry, and unnecessary cash at home. Bring only what you need.
- Stay sober. Keep a clear head. Avoid excessive alcohol or substances before or during a meeting.
Protecting Your Privacy
- Use a separate phone number. Consider using a free VoIP number or burner app for communication rather than your personal phone number.
- Don't share personal details. Avoid giving out your full name, home address, workplace, or financial information until you have established trust.
- Use secure payment methods. Avoid wire transfers or sending money through apps to people you haven't met. Cash in person is the safest option.
For Providers
- Screen your clients. Request basic verification before meeting. Trust your screening process and don't make exceptions for people who refuse.
- Have a safety buddy. Let someone know your schedule and check in with them regularly. Establish a code word or check-in system.
- Control the environment. Meet on your terms — in a location you're familiar with and comfortable in. Avoid going to unfamiliar addresses alone.
- Keep records. Save communication records and any identifying information from clients.
- Trust your gut. If a booking feels wrong, cancel it. No appointment is worth your safety.
Report Suspicious Activity
If you encounter anything suspicious, illegal, or dangerous on SkipTheGames, please report it immediately:
